Things to Ponder

These were sent to me in an email so I can't give proper credit to whoever put these wonderful sentiments into words...

1. I like you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you..

2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.

3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.

6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.

9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.

10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.

12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.

13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.


REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.

Dramatics

Anyone who knows me, knows that I am not a drama person. There is a time and place for dramatics...Mon-Fri from 11-5, these are called soap operas. I will take my boring life anyday.The warrant for my husbands arrest has not yet been issued (thanks to our county sysytem who is backed up.)The part that bothers me the most is that he has no accountability for any of his actions. He expects everyone to do things for him immediately because someway, shape or form it is owed to him, yet when anyone needs anything from him he won't reciporcate. I am soo tired of the drama that he provokes in our family that part of me wishes he would just go away. My friend assured me that eventually my daughter will stop asking for him and he will evolve into a Santa type person (you know he exisits but no one actually sees him). I will save the drama that happened on Tuesday and just say that the piece of caca is no longer allowed in my home. (Yes MG...you told me so!)At this very moment there will be a fight about to take place because he is at a place he is not supposed to be, with someone he is not supposed to be with and the person who lives in the home where he is not to be, is a cop and is on his way home.I wish I could be a fly on the wall because @#*& is going to fly, (and I hope it's his).

It's time to move on when...

your husband breaks into his parents house, steals their checkbook and writes out checks to himself. This is otherwise know as breaking and entering and fraud, both of which are felonies punishable by prison time. I think it is safe to say that he has offically hit rock bottom. Today is his 36th birthday. There is a warrant out for his arrest and I think that no matter what happens now I can rest assured that there is no way in hell that he would be able to get shared custody of my daughter. I was contemplating postponing the divorce because I am afraid the justice system would fail my daughter. He just took a whole lotta strain off me, except financially.Milwaukee Girl said that while he is making license plates for the next 5 years that he should have to send me some of that for child support. I never thought it would go this far.
On a happier note:I have a date on Thursday. Don't get too excited, this is a very good friend of mine who owed me so I am dragging him along to my work X-mas party.Yes I have made out with him before on my birthday a few years back and things were a little wierd for a while but I don't think he would be the best suited Husband #2. I haven't kissed anyone but my husband since September of '03. The excitement to start dating again and get my dream back is very thrilling. I can't compete with MG anymore, (I never could keep everyone straight like she did) but I think I may be able to get a few good stories in.

The reasons I COULD hate you

Dear Husband,
You are always mad at me, like I did something wrong. All I did was to have you committed because I loved you enough to try to save you. I have many more reasons why I COULD, if I CHOSE, to hate you.
1. You lied to me from the very beginning of our relationship.
2. You lied and manipulated and stole from me while I was pregnant.
3. Instead of coming to see your wife and daughter the day after your daughter was born you went and used drugs.
4.You abandon us when we needed you.
5.You are selfish and self-absorbed.
6. You put yourself first.
7.You don't show up to see your daughter.
8. You lied to, stole from and manipulated your parents, sister, friends,people you didn't even know.
9. The rages you have and verbally take out on me.
10. You swear and scream in front of your daughter.
11. Everything is everybody elses fault.
12. You don't care.
13. All the times you made me cry.
14.You break my daughter's heart because she loves you and doesn't understand.

The reason why I don't hate you:
You gave me the best present in the whole world when my daughter came to me and I would not trade that for anything.