Buddies

So while I was out RG rang to see what I was doing. I informed him I had just become Vice President. Gotta love Asshole. I send him a message on my way home and he said he was still out. Great, I thought. Last time this happened he came over way too late and was in a SUPER DRUNK,not so nice mood. This time not only did he come over early but in a great mood. He sat down on the couch and I plopped next to him on the opposite end with my legs across his lap. We shot the shit with some playful banter on the couch for a while which was really nice. Then I moved to the other side of the couch where we just made out like teenagers for a while. Again, nice. Then came sex. It wasn't our normal hard core porn sex. It was normal sex. Thank God! I can't do the hard core porn sex all the time. Maybe that's why the sex seemed different, because it was normal. I asked him if this was semi-sober sex and he said yeah, blame it on that. (I think he was referring to the duration of sex. Which is not as long as when we are both half in the bag.) I told him that if was only our second time, to which he laughed and I told him that I thought it was actually nice and I liked it. It was friendship sex. It was sex between 2 people who share a mutual fondness, an understanding for each other.

Tonight would have been the perfect time to have "the talk." I didn't do it. I have time before my events come up and it's not like anyone is beating on my door to take me out. I don't need to define what we are. Our relationship, whatever it is, is fun and drama free and I rather like things they way they are. So no defining us, just setting boundaries that will keep our FWB and our friendship intact.

As he was getting ready to leave I told him that the booty call phone works both ways. He said that he would call me at 2am on his way home from work today. I told him that it didn't matter when he called and he was welcome anytime so long as there were no sexcapades and he was in and out in half an hour. We will see if my phone rings tonight.